“The only
thing you can really control is how you react to things out of your control.” –
Bassam Tarazi
One does not always get to choose what happens in life.
There are plenty of things that happen that are simply what we consider to be
out of our control. For example, being born with a terminal or chronic illness,
learning habits or ideas from our parents, getting into a terrible car
accident, how we meet someone new, or becoming the victim of a crime. Some
people may refer to these things as being the result of fate, or destiny, or
occurring simply by chance. Certainly we all have our own free will which means
we are able to respond to any situation however we want, but there are just
certain things over which we cannot possibly have complete control. And while out health might not be fate
per say, we do certainly do not have control over every aspect of it.
Similar to Tarazi’s quote though, one aspect we can control
about our health is how we react or respond to it. We do have control over
things such as what we choose to do to prevent some health problems, and in
turn, what we do to cause certain health problems. Things in our control
related to our health include things like getting enough exercise, making
healthy eating decisions, and avoiding habits that are bad for us. Other things
in our control include making poor health decisions that might cause things
like hypertension, diabetes, or cancers. Goodman writes about these kinds of decisions
when he talks about the variation in life expectancy. He argues that these
choices are the reason for the variations, “These differences are thought to
reflect such lifestyle choices such as diet, exercise, and smoking.” But there
is only so much that can be done as a response to a health problem. While
someone who was born “healthy” could make choices to harm that health, they
also have the chance of contracting a disease that is out of their control. For
someone who was born with a life-long illness or disability-related disease,
getting that illness was out of his or her control, and regardless to how he or
she responds to it, they will have it forever. They had no choice in preventing
it or causing it, they did not have control.
Along the same lines,
it is written in Gaudium that, “While a few enjoy very great power of choice,
the majority are deprived of almost all possibility of action on their own
initiative and responsibility.” Even though Gaudium writes on economics, this
idea can be applied to our health as well. Similar to the way Gaudium argues
that many are deprived of their power when it comes to money, it is not very different
when it comes to power over our health. Whether it is a predetermined path, a
life-long disease or disability, or a hereditary illness, there are many
components to our health that we do not and cannot choose. There are very few,
if any of us, who actually have complete control over our health.
Abbi, excellent blog as always. I really enjoyed it. What really struck me about your blog was how you related Gaudium to the topic at hand. I thought it was interesting when you said, "it is not very different when it comes to power over our health." At some points, we cannot completely control our health. There will always be factors that are not in our control. It was wise of you to employ the dynamic of what we are in control of and what we are not in control of. Always interesting to read your blogs. Nice job.
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